Wise People Apologise

Wise People Apologise: Because They Care.

Beloved brethren, today, I want us to explore the truth in the words of a wise man who once said;

"Apology is a super glue of relationships. It can repair any broken relationship." 

This statement teaches us the power and the wisdom in the willingness to make amends.

Those who care about their relationship with others don't think twice about making apologies whenever they error. 

This principle is well articulated in the Scriptures. In Proverbs 28:13, which reads,

"He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy."

This verse reminds us that when we have wronged another person, the path to restoration begins with humble confession: a humble apology. 

It is not wisdom to cover up our mistakes or pretend they never happened. 

True healing in any relationship can only come when we take the courage to admit our faults and seek forgiveness. 

A sincere apology opens doors to healing and reconciliation.

In Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus says,

"Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift."

Jesus is teaching us that our relationship with God is deeply connected with our relationship with others. 

If we have wronged someone, we must first seek to make amends before we can approach God with our offerings. 

A heartfelt apology paves the way for healing and reconciliation.

"Apology is the super glue that can mend any relationship".

Humble yourself:

Swallow your pride: 

Apologise to someone today. 

It may be uncomfortable: 

but it will bring much comfort in your relationship or friendship.

Those who care, don't think twice about apology.

"Smart People Apologise" ! ! !

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Make Timely Apologies

Make Timely Apologies:

My dear brethren, today I want to speak to you about the importance of apologizing, and doing it on time.

In real life, we can’t totally avoid hurting others, whether intentionally or unintentionally. 

When this happens, it is essential that we humble ourselves and take responsibility for our actions.

The Bible has much to say about the value of admitting our faults and seeking forgiveness. 

In Proverbs 28:13, we read, 

"He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." 

This verse reminds us that trying to hide or justify our wrongdoings will only lead to more trouble, but when we openly acknowledge them, we open the door for God's mercy and restoration.

Similarly, in James 5:16, we are instructed to 

"Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed." 

This verse highlights the healing power that can come when we are willing to apologize and make amends. 

When we humble ourselves and admit our mistakes, it not only benefits the person we have wronged, but it can also bring healing and restoration to our own hearts and relationships.

Too often, we allow our pride to get in the way of doing what is right. We may feel that apologizing makes us appear weak. 

Sometimes it is just too difficult to say the words, "I'm sorry." 

Friends, the ability to apologize is a sign of true strength and maturity. It is not a sign of weakness. 

Proverbs 16:18 warns us, 

"Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall." 

When we refuse to apologize, we are setting ourselves up for further conflict and brokenness in our relationships. 

But when we are humble enough to admit our faults and seek forgiveness, we demonstrate a level of Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness that others will greatly respect.

Saying "I'm sorry" does not make us weak - it makes us strong. 

It takes courage and integrity to own up to our mistakes and make amends. 

And when we do so, we open the door for healing, restoration, and deeper connections with those around us.

I encourage you today, to be quick to apologize when necessary. 

Do not let your pride or stubbornness prevent you from doing what is right. 

Instead, humble yourself, seek forgiveness, and watch as God uses your act of repentance to bring about transformation, not just in your life, but in the lives of those around you.

Timely Apologies shut doors of disagreements and conflicts, and open doors of harmony and better relationships. 

May God bless you and give you the grace to say those powerful words, 

"I'm sorry."

It’s a mark of Strength Not Weakness. 

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)