Make Timely Apologies

Make Timely Apologies:

My dear brethren, today I want to speak to you about the importance of apologizing, and doing it on time.

In real life, we can’t totally avoid hurting others, whether intentionally or unintentionally. 

When this happens, it is essential that we humble ourselves and take responsibility for our actions.

The Bible has much to say about the value of admitting our faults and seeking forgiveness. 

In Proverbs 28:13, we read, 

"He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." 

This verse reminds us that trying to hide or justify our wrongdoings will only lead to more trouble, but when we openly acknowledge them, we open the door for God's mercy and restoration.

Similarly, in James 5:16, we are instructed to 

"Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed." 

This verse highlights the healing power that can come when we are willing to apologize and make amends. 

When we humble ourselves and admit our mistakes, it not only benefits the person we have wronged, but it can also bring healing and restoration to our own hearts and relationships.

Too often, we allow our pride to get in the way of doing what is right. We may feel that apologizing makes us appear weak. 

Sometimes it is just too difficult to say the words, "I'm sorry." 

Friends, the ability to apologize is a sign of true strength and maturity. It is not a sign of weakness. 

Proverbs 16:18 warns us, 

"Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall." 

When we refuse to apologize, we are setting ourselves up for further conflict and brokenness in our relationships. 

But when we are humble enough to admit our faults and seek forgiveness, we demonstrate a level of Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness that others will greatly respect.

Saying "I'm sorry" does not make us weak - it makes us strong. 

It takes courage and integrity to own up to our mistakes and make amends. 

And when we do so, we open the door for healing, restoration, and deeper connections with those around us.

I encourage you today, to be quick to apologize when necessary. 

Do not let your pride or stubbornness prevent you from doing what is right. 

Instead, humble yourself, seek forgiveness, and watch as God uses your act of repentance to bring about transformation, not just in your life, but in the lives of those around you.

Timely Apologies shut doors of disagreements and conflicts, and open doors of harmony and better relationships. 

May God bless you and give you the grace to say those powerful words, 

"I'm sorry."

It’s a mark of Strength Not Weakness. 

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)