Sunday, July 12, 2026

LEARN TO LISTEN.

YOU CAN’T BE A GOOD SPEAKER, IF YOU ARE NOT A GOOD LISTENER. 

Many people dream of becoming powerful speakers, but few take time to become attentive listeners.

The greatest speakers are often the greatest listeners. 

They listen to God. 
They listen to people. 
They listen to wisdom. 

Every meaningful conversation becomes a classroom, and every person becomes a teacher.

When you listen carefully, you gain knowledge. 

When you think deeply about what you have heard, you gain wisdom.

Then, when you finally speak, your words carry weight, understanding, and grace.

Those who speak without listening often repeat empty words. 

But those who listen before they speak offer solutions, encouragement, and direction.

If you desire to become an effective communicator, first cultivate the habit of listening more than talking. 

Your ears are the classroom where your mouth is trained.

"Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath."
— James 1:19 (KJV)

Listen to learn. 
Learn to understand. 
Understand to speak with wisdom.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Friday, July 10, 2026

THE COCONUT LESSON

COCONUT LIFE LESSON.

The coconut is one of the most useful trees in the world.

Its outer husk is rough.
Its shell is hard.
Yet inside is sweet water and nourishing flesh.

Life is much the same.

Never judge people by their outward appearance alone. 

Some who look rough on the outside carry hearts full of kindness, wisdom, and generosity. 

Likewise, some who appear polished on the outside may be empty within.

Character is always more valuable than appearance. A beautiful heart will outlive a beautiful face.

As you journey through life, invest more in becoming a person of integrity than in merely looking impressive. 

Time fades beauty, but it refines godly character.

"But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature... for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart."
— 1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV)

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES OF SEEKING AND EATING RASPBERRIES IN KINANGOP.

MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES OF SEEKING AND EATING RASPBERRIES IN KINANGOP.

Taking cows and goats to the forest for grazing on the slopes of the majestic Aberdare Ranges was a tedious duty for young boys. 

Yet, even in the midst of hard work, life rewarded us with unforgettable moments of joy and excitement.

One of those treasured moments was searching for and eating wild raspberries hidden among the bushes. 

We would happily leave the grazing animals for a few minutes as we hunted for those tiny red treasures. Their sweet, juicy taste was unlike anything we could buy in a shop.

Even today, many years later, I can still smell their delightful aroma through my nose and almost feel their delicious taste in my mouth. 

Those simple gifts of nature made our difficult childhood days brighter and filled our hearts with happiness.

Looking back, I have learned that tough life has its own fun too.

Some of life's richest memories are born, not in comfort, but in hardship. 

The sweetest joys are often hidden along the rough paths we never expected to enjoy.

"Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith." — Proverbs 15:17 (KJV)

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

A BLACK SPOTTED BANANA.

A BLACK SPOTTED BANANA. 

A little boy picked up a banana that had black spots on its peel.

He frowned and said, "This banana is spoiled."

His grandmother smiled, peeled it, broke it in half, and handed him one piece.

He took a bite... and his face lit up.

"It is sweet!" he exclaimed.

Grandmother laughed gently and said:

"My son, never judge the fruit by the skin. Some of the sweetest bananas wear the darkest spots."

Life is much the same.

Some people carry scars you can see.

Others carry wounds you cannot. 

Some may look worn by life's battles, yet they possess hearts full of kindness, wisdom, faith, and love.

Do not reject people because of their appearance, age, past mistakes, or present struggles.

God often hides His greatest treasures inside ordinary vessels.

"But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature... for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart."
— 1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV)

May we learn to see people the way God sees them.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Thursday, July 9, 2026

THE TONGUE IS LIKE A LION: IF YOU LET IT LOOSE, IT WILL WOULD SOMEONE.

THE TONGUE IS LIKE A LION. IF YOU LET IT LOOSE, IT WILL WOUND SOMEONE.

One careless word can destroy a friendship. 
One angry comment can damage a reputation. 
One reckless post can leave scars that last for years.

The tongue has no bones, yet it can break hearts, destroy trust, and ignite conflicts. 

In the age of social media, many people type faster than they think. 

Before you speak, write, post, or comment, pause and ask yourself:

👉 Will these words heal or hurt?
👉 Will they build or destroy?

Words once released can never be fully retrieved. 
A lion let loose may attack unexpectedly: in the same way, an uncontrolled tongue can wound people we never intended to hurt.

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." - Proverbs 18:21 KJV.

Let your words carry wisdom, kindness, and grace. 

Speak carefully. 
Write carefully. 
Post carefully. 
Comment carefully. 

The fruit of your tongue will eventually return to you.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

The tongue is like a lion: if you let it loose, it will hurt someone.