MARRIAGE STRUGGLES.

POWER STRUGGLES IN MARRIGE: ONE+ONE=ONE: BUT.....WHICH ONE?

Every marriage starts with a beautiful love story.

Two people meet, connect, dream together and promise "Forever-Yours".

But from the very first day, that story can slowly begin to mutate.

One of the greatest causes of this mutation is the struggle for power.

Who should lead?

Who should decide?

Who should be obeyed?

Who should have the final say?

The Bible says that in marriage, TWO people become ONE.

But the difficult question many couples silently wrestle with is:

Which ONE? 

The MAN or the WOMAN?

Sadly, when marriage becomes a battlefield for dominance instead of a sanctuary for love, peace begins to disappear. 

Ego replaces humility. 

Competition replaces cooperation.

Control replaces companionship.

Marriage was never designed to be a war for supremacy.

It was designed to be a union of mutual love, honour, sacrifice and understanding.

A healthy marriage is not about who is greater.

It is about two people choosing to become greater together.

When love leads, power struggles lose their strength.

Ephesians 5:21 (KJV):

"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God."

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Vision Before Provision

VISION COMES BEFORE PROVISION. 

Many people remain stagnant in life because they are waiting for provisions before pursuing their vision. 

They want money before they start.

Connections before they move, and,

Opportunities before they prepare themselves.

But life does not work that way.

Vision comes before provision.

A Vision is an idea of a future that has been produced to Clarity. 

When you can clearly see where you are going, your decisions, actions, prayers and efforts begin to align with that destination.

Without clarity about your future, you don’t have a Vision — you only have wishes.

Provision follows Vision. 

Resources are attracted to purpose.

Help comes to those who know where they are going.

God often provides after you begin the journey of faith, not before.

Proverbs 29:18 KJV:

“Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”

Do not sit down waiting for perfect conditions before you move forward. 

Clarify your Vision. Write it down. 

Pursue it faithfully. 

As you move with purpose, provisions will begin to appear along the way.

Your future becomes clearer when your Vision becomes stronger.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

The Efficiency of Obedience.

THE EFFICIENCY OF OBEDIENCE:

Abraham never preached a single sermon.

He did not write a single proverb.

He did not craft a single psalm.

He did not publish a single book.

He did not build a single Temple.

Yet his obedience speaks louder than many who did all those things.

His obedience has echoed through every generation until today.

Indeed, obedience speaks louder than voice, louder than talent, louder than ability.

God is not merely looking for gifted people, but for obedient hearts that trust Him completely.

Abraham became a father of faith not because of eloquent words, but because he obeyed God even when he did not fully understand the journey ahead.

True greatness is born in obedience.

Genesis 22:18 KJV:

"And in thy seed shall all the nations of the earth be blessed; because thou hast obeyed my voice."

Obedience may look simple, but its impact can outlive generations.

One Step of faith speaks louder than Sermons, Books, and Temples.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Happy Mothers Day

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY: HONOURING OUR MOTHERS .

Behind every strong family is a mother who refused to give up. 

Through sacrifice, prayers, tears and unwavering love, mothers continue to hold families together even in difficult seasons.

A mother’s strength is not only seen in her words, but in the silent battles she fights daily for the sake of her children. 

Many carry burdens quietly, yet still choose to love, nurture and encourage others.

Mothers are truly heaven’s gentle hands shaping the future with love, wisdom, faith and compassion. 

Their influence reaches beyond today and impacts generations to come.

Today, we celebrate and appreciate all mothers for their resilience, dedication and unconditional love. 

Your labour is not in vain, and your impact can never be forgotten.

Proverbs 31:28 KJV

“Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.”

Happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful mothers globally. 

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

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THE POWER OF SELF CULTIVATION.

THE POWER OF SELF CULTIVATION.

Many people spend enormous time, money and resources building their careers, businesses and vocations, yet neglect the most important investment — themselves.

You are the major factor behind your success. 

When you improve yourself, everything connected to you begins to improve. 

A better you produces better results.

Self cultivation is a cultivation of every other aspect of your life.

Cultivate your health so you can have strength for the journey.

Cultivate your environment so you can think and grow in peace.

Cultivate your understanding so you can make wiser decisions.

Cultivate your skills so you can increase your value and effectiveness.

When you work on yourself:

Your career benefits. 

Your business benefits. 

Your relationships benefit. 

Your future benefits.

Never stop growing, learning and improving yourself. 

The greatest project you will ever work on is you.

Proverbs 4:7 KJV:

“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.”

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

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