IF YOU THINK YOU ARE SPIRITUAL, TRY SPENDING SEVEN FULL DAYS WITH YOUR FAMILY
Sometimes we think spirituality is measured by how long we can pray, how many scriptures we can quote, how beautifully we can preach, or how peacefully we behave in church.
But try spending seven full days with your family—without escaping into the office, church, meetings, ministry, or your phone—and you may discover another dimension of spirituality!
You will understand why sometimes mothers shout at their children.
You will understand why a mother who has patiently answered the same question ten times may suddenly say, “Enough!”
You will understand why your patience can fluctuate from 100% to below 10% when you are tired, hungry, overwhelmed, or dealing with the same family issues repeatedly.
You will discover that family is one of God's greatest classrooms for developing patience, love, humility, forgiveness and self-control.
It is easy to look spiritual when everything is quiet and everyone is behaving.
The real test comes when someone spills something you just cleaned, a child refuses to listen, your spouse misunderstands you, or everyone needs your attention at the same time!
That is where character is tested.
The Bible says:
“Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.”
— 1 Corinthians 13:7 (KJV)
Your family may sometimes test your patience—but they can also become God's instruments for building your character.
So, before judging a mother who raised her voice, or a father whose patience ran thin, remember: you may not know the weight they have been carrying all day.
And perhaps the greatest evidence of spirituality is not how we behave before people who admire us, but how we love and treat the people who live closest to us.
Stay spiritual at home too! ❤️
Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)