People Have Multiple personalities

PEOPLE HAVE MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES:

Beloved brethren, today I want us to unpack the following wise nugget:

"People have multiple personalities. Pay close attention to small details, to discover some hidden traits in a person, before you commit to a long term relationship with anyone"

This wisdom nugget is an important reminder of the complex nature of human beings. 

People often present a carefully groomed version of themselves to the world: 

a "Public Face" designed to create a favorable impression.

However, beneath this surface lies a collection of traits, beliefs, and behaviors that may be quite contrary to what we see. 

These "hidden traits" can manifest in subtle ways: 

•In the way someone treats a waiter, 

•In their reactions to unexpected challenges, or 

•In their choices when faced with a moral dilemma.

Paying close attention to these seemingly insignificant details can provide valuable insights into a person's true character. 

It is like peeling back the layers of an onion, revealing the deeper truths that lie beneath.

The Bible, in 1 Samuel 16:7 KJV, reminds us that:

"Man looks on the outward appearance, 

but the Lord looks on the heart." 

This verse highlights the importance of looking beyond superficial appearances to understand the true nature of a person.

Building lasting relationships requires a deep understanding of the other person. 

Take your time to observe, listen, and truly see beyond the surface, if you intend to build a long lasting relationship with any one.

The man you see on Sundays, 

is very different from the man people see on Mondays.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)