Dangers of Women and Sex

S*X AND FEELINGS

A man can have s*x with a lady and still don't have any feelings for her, most men only need space to have s*x but majority of women need reason to have s*x.

90% of woman cannot have s*x without feelings, A man can travel for eight hours just to have s*x with a female and yet, not love her or even have any feelings for her.  

S*x makes men act as if they are in love while they are not!! What they feel is lust, what they feel is what they see which is curves and a huge behind, go through a lady's silky skin thigh for a 5 minutes or less, ejac*late and forget.

The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for s*x and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. So many woman are bought and blinded by materialistic things, yet miss the small little gestures that money cannot buy. 

S*x is not an act of commitment. So many Men and women still leave their partners on their beds and start thinking of the next woman or man to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from s*x dies in minutes.

It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Ethiopia for s*x would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for s*x.

S*x drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. S*x and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.

People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for s*x. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.

You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?

This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.

Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into s*x. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.

The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become s*x symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within life? They have sold their souls out to s*x. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses?

Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:

For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.

My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and it start today.

I am not posting this to make anyone guilty or stand as a judge, but just stating nothing but the truth.

Beware of Attracting Too Many Women

The more women like you, the more your life is in danger. Fact. You need to be very careful when your success, your presence, your financial status, or even just your charisma starts to attract more women into your life. Why? Because this is where things get dangerous.

Think about it. A man who has too much attention from women is at constant risk of being distracted, manipulated, and taken down. It’s not a coincidence that powerful men often end up destroyed by scandals, broken marriages, or financial ruin the moment they let their guard down around women. Don’t get it twisted—not every woman in your life means well.

Here’s the hard truth: The more women you attract, the more you’ll be targeted by those who see you as a resource, not a human being. For every genuine woman who might respect and value you, there are ten others who just want a piece of your success. That’s the game, and you better be smart enough to play it wisely.

1. Women are Attracted to Power and Wealth

Look, it’s biology. Women are wired to be attracted to power, success, and wealth. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s human nature. But understand this—when you start to rise, so will the number of women trying to get close to you. And not for the reasons you think. They see you as a man who can provide, a man who has access to resources, and for some, that’s all you are. A stepping stone, a provider, a target.

They’ll come with smiles, sweet words, and all the charm in the world, but make no mistake, some of them don’t care about you as a person. They care about what you can give them, and when you stop giving, they’ll drain you dry. They’ll take your money, your peace, your energy, and when you’re left with nothing, they’ll move on to the next man.

2. Distraction is a Killer

When women start coming at you left and right, it’s easy to get distracted. You’re feeling good about yourself, your ego is fed, and you think you’ve got the world at your feet. But here’s where you need to be careful—distraction is the ultimate killer of dreams. You didn’t work this hard, grind this much, or sacrifice all that time just to throw it away for short-term pleasure.

Every time you chase after one of these women, you’re taking your eye off the ball. You’re losing focus, and in the business world, losing focus is a recipe for disaster. Your competition won’t wait while you’re busy entertaining women, and those women won’t care if you fall. They’ll simply move on to the next man who’s still on his game.

3. Scandals, Setups, and Manipulation

Let’s not act like the world isn’t full of traps. Powerful men attract scandals, and many of those scandals start with women. Whether it’s false accusations, leaked personal information, or even blackmail, women who want to take you down know how to play the game. One mistake, one wrong move, and they’ll have you wrapped around their finger.

You think it can’t happen to you? Look around—how many successful men have been brought down by women who pretended to care, only to turn around and destroy their reputation, career, and personal life? Don’t be naive. When you start attracting women, you start attracting potential threats to everything you’ve built.

4. The Cost of Attention

Success comes with a cost, and attention from women can be one of the most expensive prices you pay. The more women surround you, the more you’ll be tempted to spend money, time, and energy just to maintain that attention. Whether it’s fancy dinners, gifts, or trips, you’ll find yourself pouring resources into women who will never repay you with loyalty or love. They’ll take, take, take, until you’ve got nothing left.

And let’s not forget about the emotional cost. When you’re juggling multiple women, you’re not just playing with fire—you’re risking your mental peace. Drama, jealousy, manipulation, all of it comes into play when you let too many women into your life. Your focus should be on building your empire, not getting caught in emotional webs that slow you down.

5. The Ego Trap

There’s no denying it—attention from women can feel good. It feeds your ego, makes you feel invincible. But here’s where the trap is: your ego can be your biggest enemy. The moment you start believing that you’re untouchable because of how many women are interested in you, you’ve already lost the game.

An Alpha male knows his worth without needing external validation from women. He’s focused on his mission, and he doesn’t let female attention steer him off course. He knows that the more women like him, the more he needs to guard his space, his resources, and his mind.

6. Not All Women Are Bad, But Most Can Be Trouble

Let’s be clear—not all women are out to get you. There are genuine, loyal women out there who will support and love you for who you are, not for what you can give them. But here’s the catch: those women are rare. And the more success you have, the harder it becomes to find them. The majority of women who flock to you once you’ve made it aren’t in it for the long haul. They’re there for the benefits, and the moment those benefits dry up, so does their interest in you.

7. Stay Focused, Stay Safe

So what’s the solution, Men? Simple: stay focused and stay safe. Don’t let your success be the reason you get taken down by a woman who doesn’t care about you. Guard your heart, your finances, and your energy. Be smart about who you let into your life. Don’t give access to just anyone. You worked too hard to let distractions ruin everything.

When women start liking you, your life is not about becoming the “ladies’ man.” It’s about staying on your purpose, keeping your eyes on your goals, and knowing that not all attention is good attention. You’re an Alpha—act like it.

Long Life is Our Heritage

Long Life is Our Heritage in Christ

Beloved brethren, as children of God, long life is our cherished inheritance.

In Psalms 91:16 KJV, it is written, 

"With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation" 

God has promised to satisfy us with Long Life as one of the benefits of His salvation.  

Let us embrace this heritage of long life, not as a mere statistic, but as a fundamental reminder of God's love and faithfulness in our lives. 

Long life is a blessing from God: 

It is His promise to us: and, 

It is our cherished heritage in Christ. 

May you walk in the fullness of this divine blessing.

You will live looooooong like a tree, enjoying the goodness of God. 

Isaiah 65:22 KJV, says,

".......for as the days of a tree are the days of my people, 

and mine elect shall long enjoy the work of their hands."

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Rock Higher Than I

A Rock Higher Than I.

Beloved brethren, today I want to encourage someone who may be going through some overwhelming moments in his or her life.

David had such a moment in his life, and he overcame with a simple but powerful prayer that is still applicable in our lives today.

The prayer is in Psalms 61:2 KJV,

"From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: 

lead me to the rock that is higher than I."

No matter how far we may feel from God, no matter how lost and alone we may be, our Heavenly Father hears our cries. 

In moments of overwhelming pain, or uncertainty, we can lift our voices to the One who stands firm as an unshakable rock - Higher and Mightier than any earthly trial.

He is a solid foundation where we can find refuge, strength, and guidance. 

When the burdens of life weigh heavy upon our shoulders, let us remember to turn our eyes upward for peace and comfort.

God will always lead us to Himself, the Everlasting Rock.

No challenge, no storm or no principality that is higher or stronger than Him.

Make Him your refuge and your shelter.

Call Him from anywhere, anytime, and in any circumstance. 

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

The Nakedness of A King

The Nakedness of A King Is A Reproach To His People. 

Beloved brethren, today I want us to unpack the following wisdom nugget. 

"The nakedness of a king is a shame and reproach to the people in his kingdom"

When the leadership of a nation is exposed and stripped bare, the people suffer the consequences. 

The "nakedness of the king" - whether that be moral, ethical, or political - is a shame and reproach that affects every citizen.

When those in power lose their integrity and dignity, it is the people who bear the burden. 

The drama, the circus, and the dysfunction at the top leadership in Kenya is trickling down and tainting all of us in the Nation.

Rather than laugh at the Nakedness of our leaders, we must remember that their nakedness is to our own reproach. 

The wellbeing of a country is inextricably linked to the character and competence of its leadership.

Ecclesiastes 10:17 NLT reads, 

"Happy is the land whose king is a noble leader, 

and whose leaders feast at the proper time to gain strength for their work,

not to get drunk." 

The leadership in Kenya is probably not drunk with alcohol, but is certainly drunk with power. 

Let us pray for all our leaders.

Pray that God may impart each of them with the spirit of excellency -Daniel 6:3 KJV

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Peace Be Still

Peace Be Still: No Storm Last Forever:

Beloved brethren, today I want to encourage anyone going through a storm, with this simple but fundamental truth:

"No storm last forever" !

I also want to remind every believer, that Jesus is able: "To Still, Any Storm, Anytime, Anywhere".

In Mark 4:39 KJV, the Bible says,

"And he arose,

and rebuked the wind, 

and said unto the sea,

Peace, be still. 

And the wind ceased, 

and there was a great calm."

In NIV Bible, this scripture reads:

"He got up, 

rebuked the wind and said to the waves, 

“Quiet! Be still!” 

Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.

When the winds of adversity, and the waves of turmoil crash against us; all we need is to remember the words of Christ: "Peace, be still".

Jesus has the authority to calm the storms in our lives Anytime and Anywhere. 

No matter how overwhelming the circumstances may seem, His peace can bring a great calm to our troubled souls.

Take comfort in the knowledge that no storm lasts forever. 

With Jesus in your boat, He can calm any storm, anytime, anywhere: if you invite him to do so.

"Peace Be Still", is His command in your life today.

"Great Calm" is your portion in Jesus Mighty Name.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)

Divine Economics

Divine Economics:

Beloved brethren, today I want us to understand the major fundamental principle of Divine Economics. Which is the Principle of Divine Multiplication. 

As we sow, so shall we reap.

And the reaping will always be a multiple of what is sown.

This principle is not just a nice idea, but a fundamental spiritual truth backed by the very Word of God.

In Luke 6:38 KJV, reads:

"Give, and it shall be given unto you; 

good measure, 

pressed down, 

and shaken together, 

and running over, 

shall men give into your bosom.

For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again."

When we are generous with Our Time, Our Talents and Our Treasures, God honours our generosity and returns it to us in abundance. 

The more we "Pour Out", the more He "Pours In". 

The principle of sowing and reaping, unlocks the principle of multiplication. It opens the floodgates of Heaven for divine provision. 

Let us learn to give joyfully and faithfully, trusting in the unfailing promise of our Heavenly Father. 

I am not only talking about giving in church. No, No, No, this principle applies across the board. 

Generosity will always result in multiplication. 

A generous man will always abound with blessings. 

In Proverbs 11:25 KJV the Bible says:

"The liberal soul shall be made fat: 

and he that watereth shall be watered also himself"

In NIV the verse reads,

"A generous person will prosper;

whoever refreshes others will be refreshed"

When we embrace a lifestyle of generosity, we will keep reaping harvests of blessings beyond our wildest dreams.

Be generous: It is for your good.

Boniface Amani Gichina (CPM)